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Part 12/My Story

Saturday, September 13th, 2008

Do you believe that we are entering a ‘New’ AGE OF ENLIGHTENMENT?

Do you know what this can do for us? When following THE LAWS OF THE UNIVERSE we know that what we focus on expands. So what do you think we should put our attention on? What we FEAR or ‘LOVE?’

I hope that these two beautiful video’s can inspire you, and have you feeling more awakened to acknowledge that we can be a spectacular part of it all….if we ‘choose love!’

Remember: Our eyes see what we want them to see, and how we see our world may differ from another.

-We can choose to see our world in darkness or we can choose to see the Grand Magnificent ‘New’ AGE OF ENLIGHTENMENT being formed….. as we first make the changes in ourselves, and shine that light and love onto all we see. ~~~ Tina Rizzitello

Let go of the ego’s illusions and barriers of protection…. choose to let go with love!

We are the creator’s of all we experience so why don’t we use this wisdom to create the world exactly as we want to see it? I do believe that is the truth behind THE LAWS OF UNIVERSE.

Will you come with me on this spiritual path of enlightenment? So that we can grow together….to use our love to heal the world? So that we can make all our lives filled with so much joy, peace and TRUE HAPPINESS!

I see loving hearts with creative and expansive minds blooming to new beginnings. What we see is what we belief. So what are you seeing?

Welcome to this ‘New’ AGE OF ENLIGHTENMENT!

Love is considered the most basic emotion that human awareness can feel; therefore, it is the closest to the source of life. The burst of well -being you feel when you fall in love is due to the fact that you unconsciously open the channels of awareness that allow Prana (Life Force) to flow. ~~ Deepak Chopra from Ageless Body, Timeless Mind

Part 11/My Story

Friday, September 5th, 2008

I do feel we all have STORIES TO TELL! And I am hoping by telling my real story, and also re-creating my new story, that it may inspire and motivate you after you have seen what type of background I had. So that you will begin to trust me and come to understand, what my purpose is in creating this website. And maybe even convince you to tell your story soon to come.

I am still on my own journey of self discovery and also being on a very spiritual path and the answers are becoming more and more clear. Yes, as I am walking this road I am….right in front of your eyes transforming into the person that I was meant to be. So that I can say to you: “This is why I was put here on this earth” To do exactly what I am doing right now at this exact moment and time. This is my life’s purpose!

And I believe that you have intuitively found our pages to be right where you are suppose to be in your life.
When I started Part1/My Story, I had said. click-ALL I HAVE TO DO IS DREAM.

In Part 2/My Story I stated that I was sent to America to live with a family who raised me. And that ever since then I have been searching for THE MEANING OF LOVE.

When I came here at age five, I was not speaking English and was sent to 12 years of Catholic school. And because I started one year behind of other first graders, and because the school was never told the truth of me being adopted, I had a difficult time keeping up with my grades and I was not given that compassion that I needed as a child going through these kind of changes. I was told that it must be kept secret, but the little fun side of me would tell my friends anyway and I remember telling jokes and having so much fun when I was away from my home life. It was a way to avoid feeling the pain of not getting the attention and love from this family that had raised me.

And for these reasons I had developed many self- limiting beliefs. Even when I had gone to Beauty school at age 26, I was achieving grades of 90’s-100 and still couldn’t keep myself believing in myself, even when the proof was in the pudding.

I learned to develop my own ways to find THE MEANING OF LOVE, because I spent so much time being sent to my room. I lived in a big beautiful three story home with an attic, where they sometimes allowed me  to tidy it up. And realized that I really enjoyed those times because I could use my imagination to look at all the treasures they had and to feel as if I was living in the old photos, and I could even dress up in some of the old clothes they had stored away, hoping they would not catch me and get send to my room again. I had gotten use to living in fear. But at these particular times it felt like TRUE HAPPINESS for me!

Since I was not able to be with my friends very often, who seemed to have the freedom to play when ever they wanted to, I had learned to enjoy being ‘alone.’ And considered it like being in my own IMAGINATION LAND.

So, during all this time in self discovery, I realized that I had used my grand imagination as a child to think up creative ways to run away….to escape the ties of this family. Instead of studying at times I had been continuously taking myself into this IMAGINATION LAND (as I call it). To be able to cope with the situation of not feeling the love I needed as a small child.

See, now I can look back and see my past in a positive way. But first it was very important to deal with some of those painful feelings that I had stuffed down for so long. And found that I needed to ‘heal’ big time. And used my courage to face the facts that it did happen and to try to recall if there were any ‘happy times’ that I could remember.This is when I became aware of how I used this particular defense mechanism. And I remember thinking to myself, ‘ALL I HAVE TO DO IS DREAM’ and found the inner peace that I was  needing.

And I guess I really did live quite an adventurous life at times, because I did run away at least four times, up until the age of 18. Even though I was scared to death of the circumstances of what they would do to me, when they found me, I guess I felt it couldn’t be any worse than how they had treated me already and was willing to take the risk. So that I could spent time with my friends families that seemed to have everything that I felt I was missing.

And my truth today, is that children do need so much love and compassion to help them believe in themselves.That’s what makes HAPPY CHILDREN!

I think of those ‘happy times’ to see that the beautiful moments were there to help keep me strong and courageous at will. To help me stay balanced to handle so many of the unhappy times. And see how it has molded me into the person I am today. So that I could find my own MEANING OF LOVE in new and exciting ways!

And this, is what I am bringing to you from the work that I am doing in this website. And as I say in my Bio, it may seem as if our experiences are alike to one another but I know that we all have our own idea of what we feel click-TRUE HAPPINESS is.

And we must find out what those differences are so that we can discover what makes us so unique.That’s when we will be living our ‘real purpose’ and it will lead us to our own idea of click-TRUE HAPPINESS!

Until then, I will continue to offer you every means to find inner peace, and to help you to understand

Why IMAGINATION IS IMPORTANT! You will always have my unconditional love and compassion to where you are in your life right now, with my WORDS OF ENCOURAGEMENT. And I will be there to give you the personal attention that you may need  to help direct you where you may want to be, with all of the research and my own personal and business life’s experiences to find your own means to TRUE HAPPINESS!

This is one of my personal favorite inspirational quotes, because it has influenced my inner voice of life!

“Imagination is more important than knowledge” – Albert Einstein

Part10/My Story

Sunday, August 24th, 2008


WHY IS IMAGINATION IMPORTANT?

I paint objects as I think them, not as I see them.
~~ Pablo Picasso

Well our Visitor’s Room has finally been created ‘FOR YOU!’
I hope that you are pleased! This room was created ‘for you’ to ‘SEE’ all the (click)-NATURAL BEAUTIES that we may sometimes miss as we run along in our hectic and fast paced lives. As you take this time to relax and ‘FEEL’ the love on our (click)-JOURNEY TO FOREVER, you will become aware of the many miracles that are taking place in our surroundings.

I would like to extend this pleasure, by speaking of the symbolism behind the manifesting of this Visitor’s Room.

Let me introduce a very special friend Arlene, who will be using her own creativity in this narrative. Hoping this will inspire you to use your own imagination to create the magic that you hold inside of you.  I believe it will answer that question again….WHY IS IMAGINATION IMPORTANT?

So you too… may discover your own passion and make those dreams your reality!

Our SECRET GARDENS await you- you hear me beckon…

Let’s walk through the GATES OF HEAVEN
beyond the chaos of life – to a peaceful place where you can unwind and feel refreshed.

We’re on our way to IMAGINATION LAND.
Can’t you just feel the sense of unshackled chains of responsibility?

YOU”LL LOVE THE FEELING as you take time to relax.

The Masters captured innocence in cherubs; softness, sweetness and offering opportunities to look at life through new eyes.

Do they know the SECRETS OF HAPPINESS?

Secret gardens await you. Path to serenity.

It’s a wonderful life knowing we have all this beauty surrounding us!
Soak it in and relax.

The lotus flower begins life down deep in the muck and mud of the water and so it symbolizes that even coming from the worst situations in life one can emerge and succeed in finding TRUE HAPPINESS.

The labyrinth represents the journey to our own center – and away from our ego – to that which is within.  To look DEEP INSIDE YOU, to see where you are meant to be.

Does this frog know the SECRETS OF HAPPINESS? One could spend hours enjoying the contrast between the beauty of this lotus, lily pad and frog.

Tranquility forthcoming – opportunity to meditate and look within.  Tranquil setting yet elements of strength all around – stone,  metal,  wood.

The blue bird who appears alert & free- free to explore if he chooses. Ever so mindful of all that’s around him. You can have this freedom, too.

Follow your bliss. Leave the world behind.  You could sit here forever enjoying the color and the serenity- how tranquil!

Butterfly  – You can let go.  Poised and balanced as a ballerina on point. You’ll love the feeling of confidence as you embark on new endeavors.

Ancient architecture grand and rich as it stands with authority and beauty.
A chaise lounge and some grapes, please!

Have you ever watched peacocks prance around with feathers down?
They look like royalty strutting around in sapphire colored robes.

Our NATURAL BEAUTIES-  A family of flowers – no two exactly alike -

yet each offer beauty to us.

As we travel this road to enlightenment what joy we have in the comfort of our furry friends.
Many colors of nature. Ah, perspective!

Is the pond murky to the eye or do we see it as ‘home’ to it’s many critters!

Is there a STROKE OF INSIGHT?

Meaningful beauty. Has it’s own message as you realize this is home to God’s other smaller creations. No trespassing.

The lotuses of heaven can change meaning according to people’s wishes, flowering when needed.
STROKE OF INSIGHT - a new beginning- Your own unique MEANINGFUL BEAUTY for the world to see!

Ascension to solitude. Inviting one to a (click)-JOURNEY TO FOREVER encouraging you to wander and explore to look DEEP INSIDE YOU.

WHY IS IMAGINATION IMPORTANT?

One of Arlene’s favorite quotes: Adding a little bit of humor as you travel your road and FOLLOW YOUR BLISS!

A fool-proof method for sculpting an elephant:  first, get a huge block of marble; then you chip away everything that doesn’t look like an elephant.  ~Author Unknown

IT’S A WONDERFUL LIFE….Don’t you think so?

Part9/My Story

Thursday, August 21st, 2008

Oh, If I could only put everything I really want say into words, to all of you right now!

See, this journey that I am on is so amazing when I take the time out to stay in the calm of the somewhat chaos/drama that we ourselves cause, all by our thoughts that make our life that way.

I am going through the most challenging times, but I know deep inside that the faith I have that things are all right, right now keeps me strong enough to wake up  every morning to believe that God always has an enlightening sign waiting for me when I turn on my computer each day.

This last year has made me realize that’s all I have to do is to successfully learn how to apply click-THE LAWS OF THE UNIVERSE and ask specifically for what I really desire (what my heart aches for) and there it is!

But that I first must believe that I am deserving of it and know that if my thoughts are only out of ‘LOVE’  and not fear based, for all I encounter in my life that the universe can only give me what I ask for.

Yesterday I had found myself again, like so many other times in a state of disappointment because things are not happening for me as quickly as I had intended again. But I knew that my thoughts were out of ‘love’ for the people that I believed were not helping me to get there quickly enough. And because I had woken up in the morning and had said to myself “I know I am a loving person and that I deserve to to have others love and care about me” I found myself getting all of it from a person that I never expected it to come from.

I will be speaking of all these special people that are giving me the education that I am now getting to see me through to my next SUCCESS IN LIFE, but for now I want to reach a little bit closer before I explain where I have been headed. Not to keep you in suspense, but so that it can help you to be more aware of the wonderful resources that you too can use to reach your own ‘Big Dreams.’ For now I can tell you that I am so grateful to have all them in my life!

And just by having this particular person take the time out to be compassionate and speak with me, I was able to feel calm and patient about the situation. And the reason being, sometimes when we may think the universe is working against us, about our wishes and desires we begin to see that it is only our thoughts bringing on these feelings. And if we can rearrange our thinking in a more positive way, we will be amazed at how the universe is always working in our favor. But again I will repeat we must have this faith to believe in click-THE LAWS OF THE UNIVERSE!

I promise you as you keep up with my story I will be able to explain everything more in detail, but for now I can only be somewhat vague, for reasons that I will be able to reveal to you as the miracles are unfolding naturally as I write these posts.

But these last few months, I will tell you that I am asking the universe to bring me others that I want to attract to give me the support, guidance, compassion and most importantly ‘LOVE’ that can help see me through to be able to reach some very important goals on my new career path.

And they are all coming to be, but I find myself so surprised at times because I forget how truly easy it can be when I keep those click- HAPPY THOUGHTS and remember that I am a beautiful being that deserves this coming to me. We all deserve our own idea of TRUE HAPPINESS, and we must believe that!

See, I have been using all the tools that I am offering you in our click- RESOURCES page and throughout the website. And by using one of the FREE BEST ONLINE DATING SITES, I have reached out, and found myself meeting two of the most like-minded, beautiful, loving and caring gentleman that I was dreaming of. When you are really able to be the TRUE YOU and I believe (as you must know from learning about me) that everyone of us possess. Our own unique qualities (click-a MEANINGFUL BEAUTY), that we must share with others so that we can be loved by others.

When you can be honest, and shout out “TAKE ME AS I AM!” That is when your real MEANINGFUL BEAUTY shines through and makes others attracted to you!

My wish for you… is to help you to keep HAPPY THOUGHTS in your life, knowing that you do possess your own unique MEANINGFUL BEAUTY. And to be able to (discover your own passion) by applying THE LAWS OF THE UNIVERSE, and to believe that you do deserve your own idea of TRUE HAPPINESS and SUCCESS IN LIFE!

Part 8/My story

Tuesday, August 12th, 2008

HUMAN EMOTIONS of sadness verses SMILE POWER!

Yes, it is the NATURE OF HUMAN BEINGS.….to have highs and lows!

But it’s how we’re able to deal with those lows is what really matters. When we’re able to accept that it is a natural HUMAN EMOTION to feel sad if we lose a friend, lover or loss of any kind. Or if we feel someone has hurt us in some way. But sometimes if we can make ourselves use some of that SMILE POWER we may even forget why we were feeling so sad in the first place.

Now I am not saying that you have to forget why your feeling low by covering up those feelings. No! No! Not at all. It is very important not to hold in those feelings. It’s not healthy in any way. But once you have allowed yourself to feel any sort of pain or sadness….even maybe by having a really good crying session… you then need to release it. That is part of the healing process.

But after you have felt these feelings, LETTING GO OF THE PAST or whatever was causing the pain, changing how we feel, can be done very easily if we can put a smile on our face. And it can make it a whole lot easier to move on.

And then that smile may automatically have you seeing things in a different light. Maybe even realizing that you needed to experience it so that maybe someone or something better could come your way.

One of my biggest lessons I needed to learn was that sometimes particular people were placed in my life just for a short period to be able to learn what I needed to learn from them, and then they seemed to no longer be around. And we may have to let go of them or allow them to distance from us to be able to accept that they were only in our life for those reasons.

Yikes! That still is a tuffy for me. But I know that it is a natural HUMAN EMOTION to feel that sadness of their loss.

But if we can change our perspective, LETTING GO OF THE PAST is a whole lot easier.

So of course, do be aware of all your feelings good or bad. Tell yourself it is o.k. to feel the way you feel.

Know that it is the NATURE OF HUMAN BEINGS to have some negative feelings of all sorts. But then, also realize that “this too shall pass.”  And then use that SMILE POWER to work up to feeling better again. So that you can see that there is always a light at the end of that tunnel, or that there is always another high again after any low.

But if you are sad and need to keep some people in your life that are not making you feel good, be as kind as you can to express how you feel to them, and then smile anyway! You just might see them being a little kinder and even smiling back at you.

That’s the beauty of SMILE POWER in my own life!

But as you can see,LETTING GO OF THE PAST may take just a little more time for that healing in me.

But do always remember that every tear has a smile right behind it, if you don’t forget to use it!

A smile is the light in your window that
tells others that there is
a caring, sharing person inside.
~~Denis Waitley

A wonderful life- Zucchero

SMILE- Marilyn Monroe

SMILE- MICHAEL JACKSON

WORDS- Boyzone and Bee Gees

Part7/My Story

Monday, August 11th, 2008

Healing HUMAN EMOTIONS

Did you get to enjoy the inspirational/fun videos in the Fun/Part 2?

The first one, Somewhere over the Rainbow? Well I myself, felt so much joy listening to it, that I must have watched it at least fifteen times in the last two days. And because of following THE LAWS OF THE UNIVERSE, continually seeing your dreams in your mind and also keeping HAPPY THOUGHTS will always be your reality. And after quite a thunderstorm, I looked out of my huge sliding windows, and there it was…….a beautiful amazing rainbow overlooking the wonderful ocean!

It was meant for me to see to reassure myself…that somewhere over that rainbow the dreams that I dream always do come true!

And yet another Sunday spent learning to let go. But this time I needed to use another form of (click) RELAXATION METHOD to heal some HUMAN EMOTIONS that must still need some working on.

I continually use all my self-help tools to help me to stay happy and never giving up.

See, I have spent so much of my time alone, which I am beginning to understand now why it was not unusual on my path to enlightenment. (please click, STARTING A NEW LIFE) Scroll to bottom of that page.

And I know that I am exactly where I am suppose to be. And the next few posts will go more in detail to where this path has been leading me.

For now, please do trust me when I repeat over and over again…..while you are in self discovery of finding your real purpose, (to why you were put here on this earth,) or possibly to find work that you really love, the importance of being as specific as possible before STARTING A NEW LIFE for yourself!

Why I tell you this, is because I myself have been on a very long journey of two and half years now, and I want so much to help you to get to where you want to be as quickly and as effortlessly as possible! And I know for sure that as you start to hear all these real issues that I have had to deal with, you will begin to see that I have already taken so much risk for you. So, this information that I offer you can have you not having to face some of these challenges that caused me so much extra time and effort.

And today I have been dealing with those HUMAN EMOTIONS of feeling very alone again. And I feel I must tell you that I made a decision to create this magnificent website for reasons of having to put a halt on a ‘big business project,’ knowing that my daughter was going to be having a baby, and I felt a strong need to move back to N.J. to be with my beautiful grand-daughter. And I do believe that this is what felt right, but somehow I also realized that I was listening to logic left brain thinking more than my right brain spirit thinking (as I call it.)

I have found myself asking, did I use that word “should” when making the decision to move away from my mission (of my real purpose) to come back to the only family I have (my daughter, and her baby) because it was what I “should” do?

It was quite a challenge for me to find this dream condo on the ocean front to give me my own inspiration….and also to give me the motivation to keep me moving forward, to get the education I needed to create the success of the website.

And another important factor was to be sure it was near to my daughter’s home to be able to see my granddaughter as often as possible so that I could keep HAPPY THOUGHTS while still practicing THE LAWS OF THE UNIVERSE.

But I found myself losing the focus of why (from the very beginning) was I STARTING A NEW LIFE on this personal and spiritual journey. To step out of my comfort zone, leaving my past life behind, and realized that these twists and turns were shifting me into forgetting that I must continue what I know now was a very ‘spiritual mission’ for me.

So now, today I finally was able to get the precious time to spend with my daughter and grand daughter and found myself feeling resentful of moving back here, feeling like I was not able to see them enough, but also because I completely had stopped my ‘big dream.’ And then also realizing that I hadn’t come to terms with myself, that my daughter, husband and granddaughter do have their own lives to live.

And that they are not there to replace the LOVE …. emotional void within me, that I feel from living without a family for most of my life.

This spiritual path has taught me that we must take care of ourselves first before we are able to help others.

“While taking care of yourself first…. always keep unconditional LOVE in your heart for others. And you will never go wrong.” ~~ Tina Rizzitello

Part 6/My Story

Wednesday, August 6th, 2008

YOU CAN LET GO!
“The harder you fight to hold on to specific assumptions, the more likely there’s gold in letting go of them.” ~~ John Seely Brown

I decided to speak about letting go, because when it comes to making a decision between ‘not giving up’ and when to ‘let go’ my mind plays tricks on me, on how to distinguish which direction will have me feeling more at peace. When this question does come up I have learned that most of the time I have been holding on too tight to any situation, and it usually means I need to use some form of RELAXATION METHODS and just relax, while including RELAXATION IMAGERY EXERCISES.


And I feel it is so important for you to see “my real life” ups and downs so that you will never feel alone when you are down. And also that you must believe that every successful individual experiences the same.
I will be offering you many TIPS ON BEING RELAXED AND HAPPY throughout the posts, and in doing so I will also be re-enforced them in myself.

In my Holistic beauty salon business, the emphasis was always on relaxation. Even the brochures had stated the importance of this quote: “Relaxation is the antidote to stress.”

I was devoted to learning all that I could, to develop new ways of using the wonderful benefits of PURE ESSENTIAL OILS for beauty. But also for teaching others the many beneficial qualities of using them for the mind, body and spirit connection.

TIPS ON BEING RELAXED AND HAPPY-
After this past weekend knowing that I was set back on offering you what I intended to in the FUN section, I found myself having to think up some different ways to have you understand that when things don’t go my way, I do remember to “let-go” when finding myself trying just a little too hard. And then I know that I need to add some relaxation, so that I can be LOST IN THE MOMENT again.

So when I woke up Sunday morning and I knew that I must practice my own RELAXATION IMAGERY EXERCISES along with other RELAXATION METHODS to treat myself with much kindness and respect, and found myself enjoying the most luxurious soothing bath….that put me in heaven!

We all deserve to find ways in which we can pamper ourselves, especially when we find ourselves being loving, nurturing and kind to others, but we sometimes forget that we also need to take this time out for ourselves!

I remembered that ever since I had been working so diligently to launch this new blog, that I sometimes would forget to make use of this wonderful relaxing place in my home. A place where YOU CAN LET GO… and find some inner peace.


Immersing yourself in a tub of water has oh… so many benefits, but today I just want to emphasize the wonderful qualities behind using PURE ESSENTIAL OILS. And the two that I will speak of can create a wonderful combination for a morni
ng bath. Lavender is one of the most relaxing…. that can help to melt your stress away and Clary Sage can be quite euphoric and uplifting.

So, I set the mood with a beautiful candle, used a few drops of the PURE ESSENTIAL OILS in tepid water, and drifted off to la-la land. Then using RELAXATION IMAGERY EXERCISES to imagine that I was in my ocean floating on a raft, looking up at the beautiful clouds and feeling so at peace.

But I will tell you that at this moment…. using my IMAGINATION was really not quite that difficult because my bathroom walls and ceiling are painted with the beach, ocean, and clouds in the sky. But when I closed my eyes, took in some deep breaths, I began to envision (MY GIFT TO YOU) and started to feel like those birds flying with all their freedom. And now I was finally LOST IN THE MOMENT again.

See, I have been living my dream since April. I manifested my rented condo on the oceanfront….and even found this particular rental unit that was just waiting for me to occupy. And of course no other condo unit has a bathroom painted with a beach, ocean, clouds and sky.

Someone else was at work here ( ? )…. because I was not the one who painted it!

Only in my IMAGINATION….. and now became my REALITY! Oh what a beautiful life!

My Inspiration!!

I look forward to offering you so many more TIPS ON BEING RELAXED AND HAPPY, so that you can experiment with new ways to feel LOST IN THE MOMENT…and know that there are times when YOU CAN LET GO!

‘Creativity can be described as letting go of certainties.’ ~~ Gail Sheehy

Part5/My Story

Wednesday, July 30th, 2008
A MEASURE OF CURIOSITY

A MEASURE OF CURIOSITY

Well, I sure hope that my last post has perked up A MEASURE OF CURIOSITY, to a little mystery on this journey of ‘FUN.’

Or maybe had your IMAGINATION running a little wild, or at least gave you some great REASONS TO SMILE!


Now you know where you can go… IF YOU WANNA STAY HAPPY and also escape to a J
JOURNEY TO FOREVER, right in the comfort and privacy of your own home……every weekend by visiting this FUN section of the Blog you will be sure to find anything that tickles your fancy in the way of fun!


And trust me when I say… that for quite some time now I have been preparing many interesting ‘FUN’ ideas to offer to you, as I was searching out new ways to include fun in my own life.


See, I had lots of bumps and hurdles on the road last week, and it was ruff! But by using all the many tools that I am started to share with you, I do always bounce back. And when I get impatient because things are just not happening quickly enough for me, by following ‘the law of attraction’ it specifically states the great importance of staying happy.


And that’s not always the easiest thing to do when your whole life has completely changed and the things that brought you happiness may no longer be giving you the same satisfaction. So I spent much of my last five years in self discovery searching for new ways that I felt would now bring that new happiness that I was working towards. And I am filled with such awe for this wonderful new awareness, knowing that this is all part of the ‘growing’ process and looking forward to each new moment to come!


So, I’ve learned throughout these years that IF YOU WANNA STAY HAPPY you better start making a list of anything and everything that can help in this process.


Because I made the decision to start a new career on my personal and spiritual journey, I have had to learn to do things that I never expected to have to learn. But as I have said before, I try to look at any obstacle as an opportunity to use my own creativity to make something work. And I believe that this challenges you to problem solve solutions, (which I do very much enjoy) because it kind of forces you to discover new creative insights that someone else might not have had to, because they haven’t had to face that particular challenge.

But for now, I must do all I can to continue this creation of the website by taking my own little JOURNEY TO FOREVERescape, into my own imagination. But if you would like to join me just click on this link to JOURNEY TO FOREVER, and you too will begin to discover more REASONS TO SMILE. And I know you will start to feel as if you have been taken to a heaven on earth!


I do need to be living in the now, by being grateful for all the angels in heaven that have been placed on my earth to assist me this far on the creation of this magnificent website. So, I will need to go back and explore just who I need to show my Gratitude…. so that I can keep moving forward more effortlessly.


And I am anxious to give you the inspiration that you may need IF YOU WANNA STAY HAPPY, and possibly may be facing your own obstacles on your path. So stay tuned, and I assure you that I will give you lots of REASONS TO SMILE!
For now I leave you…

“The creation of something new is not accomplished by the intellect but by the play instinct acting from necessity.
The creative mind plays with the objects it loves.”~~ Carl Jung

Part4/ My Story

Saturday, July 26th, 2008

HOLD ON TIGHT TO YOUR DREAMS!

Throughout my life I had always been called a ‘dreamer.’

I was also called a survivor but I still had a victim mentally thinking in those days, and I knew that I needed to learn how to be more compassionate to others that hadn’t lived through all of my adversities in life.

And because of a deep inner pride, I didn’t find it easy to reveal my financial difficulties, so I may have portrayed myself to others as just an interesting story teller with many great ideas.

When searching out for SELF IMPROVEMENT ADVICE. Your Power Within! Self Confidence through Hypnosis I realized that I had not always stood up for the beliefs that I knew had gotten me as far as I had in life, so how could I expect others to believe in me?

But it didn’t seem to affect my courage to keep going because the more I would hear “it’s impossible,” from others, the more I was determined to prove them wrong.

Back in 1990 I had been offered a job opportunity to manage a beauty salon (for the second time,) but this time it was a newly opened salon, which could give me another chance to get me closer to my dream of having my own salon.

And you will begin to see why I say, “HOLD ON TIGHT TO YOUR DREAMS!”

I learned everything I could to understand the ins and outs of managing those two salons. And I used my deep beliefs of ETHICS IN BUSINESS, to have my boss know from the start that my dream was to have my own beauty salon, especially because it was the norm in the beauty business for hairstylists to take their client followings to other salons when they would leave. And her reply was “Do you know how much work goes into owning your own business?”

It didn’t matter to me. I was determined to find a way!

So I jumped on an opportunity to start a new adventure in Florida knowing that I would be STARTING A NEW LIFE, by needing to develop a new client following, if I chose to move out of state, but I knew that the rents were much more affordable than in N.J.
My boss was very kind and even wrote me up a beautiful letter of recommendation because she herself had found it difficult to get a job in Florida.
And she was so right about that!

While working in a salon (not one by choice) for about four months or so, I had realized that one of the clients had been lied to about which manufacturer of a hair product was put on her hair, and other negative circumstances that were causing me to question my boss’s ETHICS IN BUSINESS, and it assured me that I must continue to keep scoping out rental spaces to open my own business. And used my natural gift of keeping clients loyal to me, so that I could keep moving forward on this goal. Continuously repeating to myself, “HOLD ON TIGHT TO YOUR DREAMS!

And I knew that up until that point I had not accumulated much money but I was so determined to find a place of my own.
I remembered I had purchased self help audio’s, and decided that this just may be the perfect time to listen to them well. Though, I was feeling very sad missing my daughter (who was at college in Boston), my past clients and friends, I did find the strength and motivation to successfully practice these techniques:
The Secret of Creating Your Future By Tad James, PH.D

And that was the beginning of STARTING A NEW LIFE of leaving my difficult childhood hood behind me, and starting to really make my dreams into a reality…. my JOURNEY ESCAPE into paradise!

I had also been meeting many ‘dream stoppers’ on my path. I had thought that I needed real estate agents to help me find properties, and none of them seemed to understand how I could possibly ‘dream’ with the little money I had.

See I myself, found that space…my dream salon where I could finally create my own business… having very little money!
(E-book coming soon-How to create your own beauty salon with very little money!)

And through those obstacles, I discovered my new found beliefs of ETHICS IN BUSINESS, that have offered me new opportunities again, to pave a new path to STARTING A NEW LIFE!

Part 3/ My Story

Friday, July 25th, 2008

THE SECRET MOVIE

Oh…..how wonderful THE LAWS OF THE UNIVERSE can be, once you begin to see how well they really do work….they are the facts of life!

But this truth must be explored for yourself. It only works when you can define clearly ‘what it is you really want’, and then you must ‘ask for what you want,’ and truly ‘believe that it will come to you.’ But it must be practiced on a continuous daily basis to re-enforce these newly found beliefs.

If you don’t specify your own dreams and desires when you send it out to the Universe, someone else may be using you… to attract their own dreams to themselves.

What a miraculous SPIRITUAL AWAKENING!

When practicing these laws myself (way before THE SECRET MOVIE came to being) I started to understand that when I was growing in one area of my life that people were being attracted to me because I had succeeded already in that area, at being that person I wanted to be. But when I still needed to learn lessons about a different area that had been difficult for me to succeed at, then what and whom I attracted to myself was a mirror of what I needed to work on.

But the thing is…. I would get disappointed with my results when this happened because I just couldn’t understand why everyone surrounding me seemed to possess qualities of what I felt I had succeeded at already. And I felt such feelings of discontent. They didn’t have the desire to use the self help that I used to better my life, and I had this great need to want to share all I had learned with them.

See, they were not asking for my help but they seemed to admire me, knowing that I had many obstacles to overcome and they couldn’t fathom how I could have made something of my life after witnessing so many difficult times. But yet they later noticed that I somehow succeeded at what I sought out to accomplish.

So, I have had my own SPIRITUAL AWAKENING (as I always call each enlightened insight from my inner being,) to how I could finally resolve this issue so that I can focus on my real desires. I know that ‘what I really must ask for’ by using THE LAWS OF THE UNIVERSE, will create what I desire like a magnet!

—The support, inspiration, motivation that will help to keep me moving forward on my road to

LIFE’S ABUNDANCE!

Even though, I knew I had been practicing, Ask and It Is Given: Learning to Manifest Your Desires -Esther and Jerry Hicks) I had convinced myself that these same issues had been conquered, and it did most certainly work in those moments. But it seemed so difficult to manifest the physical support from close personal and business relationships to do this on a daily basis.

Mike Dooley from THE SECRET MOVIE is one of those beautiful and loving individuals that I had attracted by STARTING A NEW LIFE, and have placed his website as a Resource ‘FOR YOU!’

He starts me off every morning with a smile on my face knowing that god is working through him to keep me as loving and compassionate towards others that must learn in their own time, their own lessons and that I am here just to fulfill my own purpose, which is in successfully creating my website to be able to offer it to you. And I am so grateful for that!

The link to this program is one of his many fantastic creations: (INFINITE POSSIBILITIES)-The art of living your dreams.

This magical note was sent to me this morning:

“Some folks, not having lived perhaps as much as you, endured as much, or loved as much, simply cannot see the truth of a situation, disagreement, or relationship as clearly as you. And so, it’s wise to keep in mind, Tina, that it’s not their fault.

Can you see this?
The Universe

“That you are in their life, Tina, that you are helping them, was part of the plan… though they cannot see this, either.”

I hope you too can experience a SPIRITUAL AWAKENING’ possibly by watching THE SECRET MOVIE, as many times as you need to, by practicing THE LAWS OF THE UNIVERSE, and then you too can say, “I have STARTED A NEW LIFE and begin to believe (as Mike Dooley would say,) “ Thoughts become things…..choose the good ones.”