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Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart. And try to love the questions themselves. ~   Rainer Maria Rilke

Before the Continuation of …..What Is The Meaning Of Love? A new definition….

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Day 4 What Do You Need?

Today, consider what needs you have around relationships. Do you want someone to spend time with, to provide emotional or financial support, to provide stability or to just be a presence in your life so you are not alone? All of these are important needs and if they are your primary focus, they will either attract someone with similar needs or drive every prospective partner away because they will see you as needy. And your needs represent your expectations, what you want people to do for you. To manifest the relationship of your dreams you must be willing to fill your own needs and not expect to find a partner to do that for you. Your energy must be whole and complete so you attract a partner who is also whole and not needy.

Write your needs down, be very honest, so you can know what your expectations are and learn to release them so you can approach your relationship from a point of wholeness.

A fulfilling, whole relationship has an equal balance of giving and receiving. To receive love we must give love and to give love we must be with someone who can receive. If we are giving without receiving, we are trying too hard to convince someone that we are worthy of love. If we are receiving without giving, we are out of touch with our emotional center and limiting our ability to share love with others.

But for some, that means giving so that someone will see their value, see them as wonderful and appreciate the love they give. They have confused love with validation and are disappointed when these kinds of relationships are emotionally unsatisfying. To receive love we have to give love but, and this is important, we must give it to someone who is able to give back to us. Our goal in manifesting a loving, fulfilling relationship is to have one that is fulfilling because it is balanced in its giving/receiving aspects.

Today, consider your past relationships and ask yourself whether you were the one who gave love and what you received in return. Did you expect to receive anything? Did you ask for anything? Was the person you were with capable of giving to you? In your new relationship, what are you willing to receive from your new partner? What are you willing to give to them?

Continued….2 more days  (( hugs ))

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